THE YOU YOU'VE NEVER MET
Personalized coaching for you to lead your team with emotional and mental clarity!
In order to train your emotional, mental, and other states, we must first know what’s driving you to behave in ways that are not in alignment with who you really are. EMSO Training lays out this pathway to levelheadedness, clarity, and peace. Everyone begins here.
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Through this training, hundreds of people have finally discovered not only that they have a “gap in their game” emotionally speaking, but what’s currently in that gap and how to change it. This discovery process was essential to who they truly were, allowing them to demonstrate more maturity where they once fell short.

We call this Emotional Sobriety, or “EMSO.” Although this training is also a great adjunct for those in recovery, it was designed for EVERYONE, as we all have some form of emotional insobriety.


In this 9 module experience, you’ll be called to transform into a more levelheaded, clear, and peaceful YOU who can handle what once seemed nearly impossible.
  ARE YOU READY FOR AN EMOTIONAL & MENTAL UPGRADE?  
From relationship failure to chaos at work, many of us do not know how to change our behavior and live our lives in a balanced and empowered way.

We try to stop or limit our behaviors or the behaviors of others, but we are still flooded with emotions, which cause us to continue having the same frustrating experiences. We feel the acidity of anger, suffocation of shame, heaviness of sadness, disturbance of embarrassment, pangs of fear, and more. The effects of these emotions create overwhelm and confusion, leading us to react rather than us leading ourselves and maintaining a levelheaded, poised, and open-hearted experience.

Do you find yourself…


  • Fighting in relationships
  • Unable to stand up for yourself and others calmly and effectively
  • Lonely and self-deprecating
  • Experiencing uncontrollable addiction/compulsions
  • In unhealthy romantic relationships
  • Conflicted in any areas of your life?
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  THIS EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU IF…  
-  You’re ready to upgrade your life, and learn more about yourself than ever before.

-  You’re a leader, part of a team, are in a family and/or relationship, or even if you are primarily solo in life.

-  You have children in your life who need an amazing example of what it means to be a compassionate, kind, balanced human being.
  WHAT YOU RECEIVE  
9 MODULES
A clear curriculum including 3 months of 1:1 training calls (or 4 workshops if company-funded) and a book and journal to guide you step-by-step through both the Essentials & Practicum portions of EMSO Training.
LIVE COACHING
Face to face with master coach, healer, Emotional Sobriety educator and more, Dr. Andrea Vitz. In addition to the live teachings, there is opportunity for live coaching.
VIDEO CURRICULUM
The teachings are recorded and available for review after the live sessions (you choose if you share during the class and would like the recording on or off during your portion).
EMSO CO SUPPORT
We encourage you to partner up with what we call an "EMSO CO" or co-pilot ("study buddy") on the journey. Most keep in touch using one of the many communication apps!
TAKE ACTIONS
This is the EMSO word for "homework" and is neatly organized in your book and companion journal. We also do several of them in class together or in small breakout groups.
COMMUNITY OF SUPPORT
You're connected with all others who are dedicated to becoming emotionally sober via a private online Community Group, live events, and the free monthly Connect Calls.
  WHY NOW?  
This curriculum has been designed as a result of Dr. Andrea Vitz’s previously severe emotional insobriety, and witnessing the way it hurt herself and others. Her climb out of this deficit, then coaching of hundreds of others out of theirs for nearly 10 years, and now training students toward their own EMSO has made her a master teacher of this proprietary training, which is now available for everyone.

This training was also inspired due to witnessing so many people around her who were seemingly “sober” still struggling in abusive and unhealthy relationships, unable to use their voice, and sometimes even still dying from their addiction, due to not having been given the opportunity to get truly emotionally sober.
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TRAINING SYLLABUS
FOUNDATIONS
Get introduced to the foundation concepts which will serve as invaluable information about yourself throughout this training.
INVESTIGATIONS
This portion of the training begins your deep investigation into the you you've been being, thereby allowing you a new choice regarding who you will become.
REPAIRS
Building upon all of your efforts so far, you will then begin repairing what hurts in your life.

EMSO FORMULA
Begin real training using a precise set of directions that we call the EMSO Formula. These 3 "practice reps" aid you in becoming emotionally and mentally stronger in your day-to-day life, relationships, and more.
CRISIS TOOLS
Learn 5 proprietary tools to remodel the you you've been being, in crises of many sizes and colors!

REPLACEMENTS
Introduction to training your behavior, beliefs, and biochemistry using new ideas for replacing the old with the new.

PERSPECTIVE SHIFTS
Here you are challenged to shift your perspective in ways you may have never imagined - expediting your EMSO status.

RULES OF EMSO
There are 10 Rules of EMSO which, when adhered to, allow you to travel toward Emotional Sobriety.
SELF-CONCEPTS
Age doesn't promise maturity but training does! And here you will use your efforts from the entire training to level up in demonstration of new maturity.
  WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING…  
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  • I was looking at divorce and surgery and now, 12 weeks later, I’m faced with neither.
    ~ Scott Riley, 62



  • EMSO has helped me become so free. Free of mean, negative inner thoughts, emotions and childhood trauma. I am now provided with so many skills that help me get over myself, lose my negative inner voice and be my emotionally sober self. EMSO has also made me become a better elementary teacher. I am now able to see my students with an understanding and am able to provide them with skills that I learned from class. My favorite thing about EMSO is hearing my students say: “My teacher is just always so calm”.
    ~ Natalie S, 26



  • I hung out with my friend who is one of your students this weekend and he is already doing so much better after only a few sessions. His young son even said to him "Daddy you look different." What a blessing you and the work you do are to this world. You have literally changed the present and the future for his beautiful children.
    ~ Student's Friend, (Student is 53)



  • EMSO changed my life 100%. I started with my mom and I’ve just come a long way. And I was depressed for a long time and I didn't really know where I was going or who I was being. I was always trying to find an escape... and now I don't have to anymore.
    ~ Jordan Valaei, 29



  • Feeling so much relief and light. I’ve had a lot of stressful instances where I usually break down and mentally spin. But I haven’t. At all!  Im enjoying each day.
    ~Student, 26



  • I'm feeling a wave of confidence and positivity and empowerment, realizing that I actually can have conversations which previously were difficult and I think that if I have those conversations a lot of drama will just smooth its way out naturally and I will be respected for my opinions to greater extent. I just wanted to let you know it's a wonderful feeling!
    ~CEO, 53



  • With EMSO training, my life is forever changed and my perspective shift has been illuminating. Before dedicating myself to this practical and effective training I felt lost in my own life and in my own body. EMSO brought light to the darkness and confusion I was experiencing. I “knew” something was wrong, I did not feel satisfied with my life or my relationships and with EMSO I could finally start to chip away at all the negativity that was holding me back. I am still on the path, but now my eyes are focused on the prize. Dr. Vitz spoke my love language and with her honest and firm guidance my progress will know no bounds.
    ~ Andie F, 41



  • I'm feeling pretty strong now. That's an amazing feeling. Dr. Vitz knows her stuff. She's so good at helping me figure things out my own. She doesn't always just give you the answers. You still have to do the work, otherwise you could just sit and nod and agree and then leave feeling exactly the same way you felt when you got there? So many times people think they're helping by force feeding you the answers. That's not this. You got to do the work. And it works. Just so happy to have that support. But you know, the universe gave her to me. And I don't know where I'd be without that.
     ~ Kristi L, 50



  • I am proud to say that I am now more on top of things in many aspects of my life, and I have never felt happier. Taking the time to be mindful of how and why I think and act, has allowed me to take charge of my life and I now feel more confident in everything that I do. I know this habit of self-introspection will continue to help me grow, as long as I am willing to keep looking more deeply at myself each day.
    ~Student, 18


  WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING…  
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  • I was looking at divorce and surgery and now, 12 weeks later, I’m faced with neither.
    ~ Scott Riley, 62




  • EMSO has helped me become so free. Free of mean, negative inner thoughts, emotions and childhood trauma. I am now provided with so many skills that help me get over myself, lose my negative inner voice and be my emotionally sober self. EMSO has also made me become a better elementary teacher. I am now able to see my students with an understanding and am able to provide them with skills that I learned from class. My favorite thing about EMSO is hearing my students say: “My teacher is just always so calm”.
    ~ Natalie S, 26



  • I hung out with my friend who is one of your students this weekend and he is already doing so much better after only a few sessions. His young son even said to him "Daddy you look different." What a blessing you and the work you do are to this world. You have literally changed the present and the future for his beautiful children.
    ~ Student's Friend, (Student is 53)



  • EMSO changed my life 100%. I started with my mom and I’ve just come a long way. And I was depressed for a long time and I didn't really know where I was going or who I was being. I was always trying to find an escape... and now I don't have to anymore.
    ~ Jordan Valaei, 29



  • Feeling so much relief and light. I’ve had a lot of stressful instances where I usually break down and mentally spin. But I haven’t. At all!  Im enjoying each day.
    ~Student, 26



  • I'm feeling a wave of confidence and positivity and empowerment, realizing that I actually can have conversations which previously were difficult and I think that if I have those conversations a lot of drama will just smooth its way out naturally and I will be respected for my opinions to greater extent. I just wanted to let you know it's a wonderful feeling!
    ~CEO, 53



  • With EMSO training, my life is forever changed and my perspective shift has been illuminating. Before dedicating myself to this practical and effective training I felt lost in my own life and in my own body. EMSO brought light to the darkness and confusion I was experiencing. I “knew” something was wrong, I did not feel satisfied with my life or my relationships and with EMSO I could finally start to chip away at all the negativity that was holding me back. I am still on the path, but now my eyes are focused on the prize. Dr. Vitz spoke my love language and with her honest and firm guidance my progress will know no bounds.
    ~ Andie F, 41



  • I'm feeling pretty strong now. That's an amazing feeling. Dr. Vitz knows her stuff. She's so good at helping me figure things out my own. She doesn't always just give you the answers. You still have to do the work, otherwise you could just sit and nod and agree and then leave feeling exactly the same way you felt when you got there? So many times people think they're helping by force feeding you the answers. That's not this. You got to do the work. And it works. Just so happy to have that support. But you know, the universe gave her to me. And I don't know where I'd be without that.
     ~ Kristi L, 50




  • I am proud to say that I am now more on top of things in many aspects of my life, and I have never felt happier. Taking the time to be mindful of how and why I think and act, has allowed me to take charge of my life and I now feel more confident in everything that I do. I know this habit of self-introspection will continue to help me grow, as long as I am willing to keep looking more deeply at myself each day.
    ~ Student, 18


REGISTRATION 
 THE YOU YOU'VE NEVER MET TRAINING  
INVESTMENT: $6,800.00
Payment plans available.
Inquire for group rates.

DURATION: 3 months of weekly training, or 4 in-person workshops*

*If company-funded.

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MEET YOUR TEACHER 

Dr. Vitz is a keynote speaker, bestselling author, podcaster, and doctor of chiropractic. Her acclaimed book, "The You You've Never Met," has guided numerous individuals to heal their emotional and behavioral patterns as well as past and present relationships.

Her work redefines what Emotional Sobriety truly is and unveils her surprising research regarding who actually requires it and why. Her anticipated second and third books are set to be released in 2024, further solidifying her status as an influential voice in personal growth and an expert in Emotional Sobriety.


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FAQS 

Is this a sobriety program?

It’s not SPECIFICALLY a training for drug and alcohol recovery, although every type of person is welcome here to transform their level of emotional sobriety. Many recovering drug addicts, alcoholics, food addicts, and more have found great success in uncovering the reason they reach for the exogenous substance, and thereby achieve longer-term recovery here.

Should I do this instead of therapy?

This will not interfere with your existing therapy. In fact in may enhance it. Many choose to do The You You've Never Met Training instead of therapy, but it is not a therapeutic process, nor endorsed by a psychotherapist.

How long is the training?

The 9 modules take place over a 12 week time period. If you are successful in this training, there is a follow-up Advanced Practices available by application.

How long do I have access to the course materials?

You will have access to the entire set of training materials for up to 3 months after you complete the training. For those that continue with EMSO AP (Advanced Practices), you have access for the full year.
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